| ANO CA BA,,,INLOVE OR INFATUATED?!
HAI...ANG HRAP NMN....
masarap talaga ang feeling ng IN LOVE...
lahat naman tayo naiinlab...
pero marami sa atin ang INFATUATED lang...
both LOVE and INFATUATION are sure to live as
up to cloud 9...
pero MAG-KA-I-BA sila...suriin mo ang
nararamdaman mo...
ang INFATUATION ay matinding paghanga...
it is an instant desire...
matindi ang iyong pagnanais na makasama ang
isang tao...
samantala, ang PAG-IBIG ay tila nag-aalab na
pagkakaibigan... (ang lalim nito)
ika nga, it takes root and grows one day at a time...
kusa itong sumisibol...
hindi ito padalos-dalos o pabigla-bigla...
kapag ikaw ay INFATUATED, may feeling ka of
insecurity...
hindi ka mapalagay...
oo nga at excited ka ngunit hindi ka totoong
masaya...
sometimes, you doubt him/her...
sometimes you always ask but seem to find no
answer...
may mga bagay din tungkol sa kanya na gusto
mong malaman...
at pag hindi mo ito magustuhan,
like hindi mo pala gusto yung taste of clothes niya,
you'd feel very disappointed...
it might shatter the image you've built about
him/her...
LOVE, on the other hand, understands...
it knows that your loved one has imperfections...
ito ang totoong pag-ibig...
binibigyan ka nito ng kalakasan...
you even feel his/her presence kahit na malayo
siya...
distance is not a hindrance for your love not to
grow...
you're sure he/she is with you in spirit...
of course, you want him/her near...
but near or far,
you know he/she loves you as much as you love
him/her...
you can wait for him/her...no matter what...
when you're INFATUATED,
you tend to say that you want to get married as
soon as time possible...
masasabi mo na," I can't afford to lose you!"....
samantala, when you're IN LOVE,
you don't rush into anything...
you're patient...
you don't panic...
you plan your future carefully...
INFATUATION is smart with sexual excitement...
you want constant intimacy with him/her...
samantala, LOVE is a maturation of friendship...
it is always best to be friends first before becoming
lovers...
pag INFATUATED ka,
iniisip mo na baka nagiging unfaithful na siya
sa'yo...
LOVE is trusting the other person...
you know you can trust him/her...
and by feeling this way,
he/she even becomes more trustworthy...
dahil INFATUATED ka,
maaari kang makagawa ng mga bagay
na maaari mong mapagsisisihan in the end...
but with LOVE, you are sure of your every move...
maginhawa ang iyong pakiramdam...
you function well...
nagiging mas mabuti kang tao pag alam mo
na pag-ibig nga ang iyong nararamdaman...
think about it...
think about the difference between
LOVE and INFATUATION...
you know, GOD is NOT a killjoy in love affairs...
LOVE is HIS idea...
He wants you to enjoy the REAL THING!
but......you have to be WISE!
or else, you might MISS it out...
worse, you'll just break hearts
or find yourself singing,
"sinaktan mo ang puso ko..."
after all, you're not settling for second best, right?
God bless everyone!!!
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